Dear Naked Mole Rat,

It's simply one of those things. If you want to try it, go for it! Don't be embarrassed, though... you have to learn some time. Just go slow, lick, suck A LITTLE, and cradle them in your hand while sucking on his penis. If he seems to not make a lot of sound when you lick, try to suck, and vice versa. If he really wants it done, he'll help you along, hun.